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Your husband's exhortation not to waste your time and energy trying to change his mother suggests that the scenario is not a surprising phenomenon and may well be personality related. If you turn the lights off and the focus is no longer on you, you can see the world beyond -- a broader and more expansive view becomes accessible.
Our self, our ego, the me, obstructs our ability to see the other.
The key is to know that you are the thinker – you don't need to be thinking anything you don't wish.
You can drop the toxic thoughts and not let them take over your mind.
I know that I probably should never have gotten married. As he matured and became more realistic, he perforce adjusted his dreams -- first, to reform only his country, then his city, his community, his family.